Emerging from Loss after Covid
I’m back! After two years of hiatus, I’m writing to reconnect and let my readers know what I’ve been up to. I wrote my last post just as Covid entered our lives. It addressed how the pandemic was compelling us to go inward, into the realm of our inner feminine, pointing us to discover a deeper level of our true nature, uncovering our deepest desires, learning the sacredness that can only be detected by…
How to Get through This Time of Isolation without Feeling Trapped
There is a way to make our quarantine experience rich and meaningful when we embrace it as an opportunity to bring us into greater balance and intimacy with ourselves. More specifically, this lockdown is a chance to bring our inner feminine and inner masculine into harmony with each other…
Patriarchy and the Patriarchal Woman
Despite the popular notion that only men can be patriarchal, the truth is that women can be patriarchal as well. In our society, patriarchy is internalized. It lives inside of us, in the psyche of both men and women.
Spiritual Loneliness: A Meandering Journey Through The Unpredictable
As a young child, I had a deep devotion to God. Growing up in Milan, Italy, I was ardently devout—with all the passion of my innocent heart and the formidable power of a fantastical, unrestrained imagination. In the magnificence of the ancient Italian cathedrals, in front of their gilded altars, I prayed to Jesus and Mother Mary. I prayed to God. But I could never…
How Learning to Receive Love Can Make Loneliness Disappear
Every one of us desires to be loved, appreciated, and included. Loneliness is the feeling that comes when we do not feel loved, and/or we lack the ability to express our love and the innate brilliance of who we are. The loneliness that I am addressing here is very different from aloneness—the ability to spend time alone while feeling full, complete, and content within yourself—which is a healthy state of being. Loneliness, however, is not healthy…
How The Shadow Inner Feminine Undermines You
PART 4 OF 4
The central function of your feminine nature is to open, receive, and travel into the inner world of feelings and emotions. When her ability to receive is impaired or distorted, the inner feminine becomes destructive in two different ways. One way is when the inner feminine becomes rigid and her receptive function closes off, leading to the rigidified shadow inner feminine. The other way is when…
How the Shadow Inner Feminine Starves You of Love
PART 3 OF 4
Your inner feminine is like a blossom that opens to receive the rays of the sun. Her natural state always remains intact at the core of your being, and you can awaken her through love, just like the prince does for Sleeping Beauty—except that this prince is your own inner masculine who lives within you. The inner masculine and feminine are the two fundamental and complementary aspects of your nature…
How the Shadow Inner Masculine Leaves a Trail of Destruction
PART 2 OF 4
The greatest gift you can give yourself, and the world, is to face and heal the fragmented shadow aspects of your inner masculine. Part One of this two-part article, dedicated to the shadow aspects I described as the collapsed inner masculine, explained how the inner masculine becomes fragmented and destructive when it disconnects from the healthy inner feminine, and how this rupture with the feminine principle is what creates the shadow inner masculine.
How the Shadow Inner Masculine Creates Hell in Your Life
PART 1 OF 4
The Sacred Lovers Within blog is dedicated to giving you the tools necessary to become aware of and transform the parts of yourself that have been traumatized and conditioned by patriarchy. You may be aware of these aspects of yourself or you may not because they lay hidden in the depths of your psyche, but you are surely aware of the turmoil caused…
How Your Sacred Lovers Within Play a Crucial Role in Your Life
Throughout history, people have been describing the existence of two complementary, yet distinctly different principles that make up our entire universe. Some call them Yin and Yang. Some call them Mother Earth and Father Sky. Some call them left and right brain,…