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The Official Blog of Tiziana DellaRovere
How Learning to Receive Love Can Make Loneliness Disappear

How Learning to Receive Love Can Make Loneliness Disappear

Every one of us desires to be loved, appreciated, and included. Loneliness is the feeling that comes when we do not feel loved, and/or we lack the ability to express our love and the innate brilliance of who we are. The loneliness that I am addressing here is very different from aloneness—the ability to spend time alone while feeling full, complete, and content within yourself—which is a healthy state of being. Loneliness, however, is not healthy…

How The Shadow Inner Female Undermines You

How The Shadow Inner Female Undermines You

PART 4 OF 4
The central function of your feminine nature is to open, receive, and travel into the inner world of feelings and emotions. When her ability to receive is impaired or distorted, the inner female becomes destructive in two different ways. One way is when the inner female becomes rigid and her receptive function closes off, leading to the rigidified shadow inner female. The other way is when…

How the Shadow Inner Female Starves You of Love

How the Shadow Inner Female Starves You of Love

PART 3 OF 4
Your inner female is like a blossom that opens to receive the rays of the sun. Her natural state always remains intact at the core of your being, and you can awaken her through love, just like the prince does for Sleeping Beauty—except that this prince is your own inner male who lives within you. The inner male and inner female are the two fundamental and complementary aspects of your nature…

How the Shadow Inner Male Leaves a Trail of Destruction

How the Shadow Inner Male Leaves a Trail of Destruction

PART 2 OF 4
The greatest gift you can give yourself, and the world, is to face and heal the fragmented shadow aspects of your inner male. Part One of this two-part article, dedicated to the shadow aspects I described as the collapsed inner male, explained how the inner male becomes fragmented and destructive when it disconnects from the healthy inner female, and how this rupture with the feminine principle is what creates the shadow inner male.

How the Shadow Inner Male Creates Hell in Your Life

How the Shadow Inner Male Creates Hell in Your Life

PART 1 OF 4
The Sacred Lovers Within blog is dedicated to giving you the tools necessary to become aware of and transform the parts of yourself that have been traumatized and conditioned by patriarchy. You may be aware of these aspects of yourself or you may not because they lay hidden in the depths of your psyche, but you are surely aware of the turmoil caused…

To Men Who Are Sick of Patriarchy: Here’s How You Can Stop It

To Men Who Are Sick of Patriarchy: Here’s How You Can Stop It

Women are leading the way, but we are not alone. There are also men taking a stand for justice, equality, and transformation. In the aftermath of the tsunami of sexual assaults and general misogyny that has surfaced in the news and social media, several of my male friends have asked me directly what they can do to support me and women in general…

The Real Reason Why Sexual Harassment Is So Pervasive

The Real Reason Why Sexual Harassment Is So Pervasive

We’re going to get through this This is a time of reckoning. As unpleasant as it is, I am happy about it. The creepy-crawlies of sexual harassment, the monsters of sexual violence, the gargoyles of abuse of male power are creeping out of the dark shadow of patriarchy. And that is good…

#MeToo: What I Learned from Being Assaulted by a Mob of Men

#MeToo: What I Learned from Being Assaulted by a Mob of Men

Nobody ever grabbed me or touched me, but I was “raped” by a mob. The experience was so shattering that it changed the course of my life. I was nineteen. It was a glorious early-summer day, and I was elated because I had just passed my Constitutional Law oral exam at the University of Milan…

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